Accept what is said; extend it without distorting it.

technique — attributed to Caitlin Walker

Walker's listening discipline is operational. In conventional conversation, what gets said has to stretch between two people. When there is a power imbalance, the person with less power has to fit the framework of the person with more power. Everything gets warped. In Walker's model, you take what is said and accept it, extending with minimal deleting, distorting, or generalizing. The thing has its own voice. The principle matters because most listening, even by trained facilitators, modifies what was said to fit the listener's frame. Walker's discipline holds the respondent's exact words and builds from them, which is the foundation of the trust that makes deeper revelation possible.

For facilitators, therapists, and executive coaches running sessions where power imbalances would normally distort responses. The technique is most useful as a self-discipline when the listener catches themselves rephrasing rather than echoing.

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